Wednesday 29 January 2014

5 Things That Ruin Perfect Relationship

We tend to think that love is the only thing we need to have a perfect long-lasting relationship, but sometimes trifles can ruin the most genuine and passionate love.
 

See the list of common mistakes partners make and keep your love away from them.

1. Criticism
It can be a very helpful tool when it is used in the right context and when it is asked for. But if you turn to criticism every single day to bring someone down or continuously point out their flaws and weaknesses, it can totally spoil the relationship. Hearing criticism often from the person you love can set off some warning alarms and make you fear that you are about to be rejected.
2. No support
When something traumatic happens in your life, you call on your significant other for support. But what if they do not come through? What if they cast you aside or say that you are being silly? This can end a relationship pretty quickly.
3. Emotionally starvation
This is what you start to feel when your partner fails to give you affection and support. You begin to feel unloved and unwanted. If it continues, you may start seeing the enemy in your partner and the relationship slowly erodes.
4. Negative all the time
There is negativity in every relationship, but when it becomes an everyday part of your life, it will end the relationship. If either you or your second half is always looking for a negative hidden meaning behind what the other says or does or is always suspecting the other of wrongdoing there is no trust in the relationship anymore.
5. Silence
When in an argument or discussion if you shut your partner out they will feel rejected and hurt. Saying something is better than saying nothing at all, even if it is something that may hurt them

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